<bump> I had largely given up social dancing for a number of reasons, and part of the problem was that I never had a 3MC any more. For a couple-three years, I'd go social dancing and sit out most of the evening, or dance with leaders who were uncomfortable dancing, uncomfortable leading, uncomfortable with me. Not fun. So I mostly stopped. Tonight, a friend was being DJ for a local dance, so I went. And had a ball. Go figure. 3mc left and right. I've been reliably told that the endorphins released during dance are the same ones released during sex. I believe that. Completely.