Have you ever been diss'ed by a partner? I have, three times (that I remember and am aware of): 1) Dancing with a new partner at a festival, I thought we were dancing close embrace (not apilado), but she maintained a slight distance from me. Her breast grazed my chest a few times. At the end of the tanda she turned around without a word and walked off. 2) Dancing at a festival, after a dance or two she said she needed to find her regular partner and walked off. Don't know what that was about. 3) Asked a woman to dance on the 4th dance of a tanda. I thought it went well and asked if she wanted to do the next tanda, but she thought that was not appropriate.