too stiff? Hi guys, I'm new to the forum and new to dancing as well! I've been trying to learn how to dance to club music but I can't seem to learn... When I dance in public people say I'm too stiff. Does anyone know how I can fix that? I don't even know what that means! haha I tried wiggling my hips more but that just makes girls laugh. I'm a 24 year old male and my goal is to learn enough basics to be able to dance in public without making a complete knat of myself =p Any help would be much appreciated! Oh, p.s., if anyone knows a good dvd I can get to teach me that would be great. I found a website called pickupdance.com, does anyone know if they're any good? thanks again!