Geez. I only had two crushes, one remedied by discovering she has kids, the other by discovering he was getting married real soon. I casually mentioned the latter tonight.... "Hey I heard you were getting married..." *shocked silence* "Yeah.......... who told you?" "Oh I don't remember, I heard about it like two months ago. Congratulations." "Thank you..." "Is that next week...?" "No, I'm on vacation next week. Going home to visit family..." How much do you want to bet, I never see a wedding band... Its none of my business but I think it's shady to hide that sort of thing.