I did a workshop with Homer ladas on 'Pitter patter.' he had a particular approach whereby you started with a left hand lead and then explored either doing pitter patter steps solo - leader, solo- follower or together. it raised the question of what can be lead. I know a couple of followers for whom something along these lines works. they are rare as unicorns. but I can give them enough impetous to dance pitter-patter steps, whilst I do something simpler OR together, which seems to be easier.