Well, I haven't been married or anything, but that doesn't mean that you are officially grown up if you do become married etc. in my opinion. And I've had a tougher life than Ashly, but that doesn't mean that I have learned everything by my age even. But sometimes you just know when to act and say things like what we were talking about in another post, and to me Ashly has not learned this. I don't think that she was ready to be on television, because of that reason. But again, that's my opinion... and I'm sticking to it lol!