That's a tricky one to discuss, because the perspective that I have - that we are each ultimately responsible for the lives and circumstances we experience, including the societal and family and economic circumstances we appear to randomly land in - touches many people's hot buttons. But, there it is...I believe one chose it on some level for a purpose, and one has amazing powers within -- tho it may be very difficult at times to plumb, corral, and direct them -- to turn the tide into a more favorable direction. Even if we don't know how to do it, we're still responsible... That is the great beauty of free will. And help comes step-by-step to learn how to manage it when we own that responsibility and start asking for guidance, understanding, and courage. That'll probly light a fuse of consternation but...meh...life is short...and I can think of few more enlightening realizations, when they come, than what I just said.