Sorry to bitch about my dance partner, but I need your advice. We take an advanced class together once a week and meet private once a week to practise. Don´t know if it matters, but in the beginning he wanted "more" from me, but has now understood and accepted that I am interested in dancing only. OK, he has changed so much.... when I first met him, he was really dancing with "Sabor", he was concentrated on me as his dance partner and we had a lot of fun. That is my main reason for dancing - fun! He, on the other side is getting more and more overambitious... he talks about our training in terms like "we have to work (!! work!!??) hard. If I have one week no time, it is a major catastrophe. He is talking all the time about what a great dancer he is (he is good, but not great!). He lost all his feeling and does not concentrate on me as his dance partner anymore. Instead he is looking at the crowd and is controlling if everybody is watching us. He likes to "spice up" our dancing with intros and everlasting shines which are getting so much on my nerves, all to attract attention. I want to do salsa social dancing and have fun. Don´t care about the crowd. He wants to be the one everybody is looking at and is not even the best dancer!! He is putting lot of pressure on me to perform triple spins (I can´t!!) to make himself look great (instead of practicing and performing HIMSELF a triple spin)! He behaves like my drill instructor. All girls will know how difficult it is to find a good dance partner and I am willing to make compromises, but it is getting to much. If I want to talk to him, he just does not react, if I openly critizise him, he is offended. Have you ever had similar experience and how would you solve it? I woudl be grateful for your opinions and advice.