Any couples out there have discussions about the costs of pro-am in their household budgets? We certainly do. Not whether it's right or wrong to do it, just the logistics, how long we will be ABLE to do it, how much is reasonable, is it right to tell our kids we don't want to buy them an airline tickets but then drop $7,000 on a comp? What if one wants to do it and the other want to, say, buy a boat? Slipcover couches? Do other couples, whether both dance or not, have these issues?