honesty, dependability, open heart, open & intelligent mind. compatible values, goals, and outlook. must love to laugh. and without natural emotional chemistry, we're not gonna get past the third date. bad kissing is a show-stopper, as i've said. physical chemistry is a must for me at this point in my life. i paid a lifetime of dues in that department and the grass must be green in that area or i'm not putting my picnic basket down.