How do you learn to do this properly? I mean, for the other dances it's a little more easy: Cha cha: flirt, Samba: party, Jive: fun fun fun, Paso: you talking to me? huh?!?! But Rumba is really not the easiest for me. I'm the lead, but I'm sure it's just as hard for the follow. So what do we do? Well, we know Rumba is the dance of love and passion, extacy and heartache, but these abstract terms (which make sense to those who already understand the matter), they don't make any sense when I need to know what face to make. Any concrete suggestions? We've tried copying pros, but we just feel and look stupid. Maybe we've copied the wrong ones.