I just want to ask your opinons because most of members here are veterans in ballroom dancing. This year I've decided to compete as pro-am and we started to make routines. The problem is that sometimes my instructor pushs me to do something that I don't like. I am very clear what I like about something or not. So steps or moves that I don't like, but he pursues me to do that, I lose my interest. Until now I clearly said " no" in these situations. But, I am just wondering if I am too strong to take my instructors opinon and look like nagging all the time. And also is this behavior insulting my instructor? Can anyone share your experience if you have like this please?