Just tell him women are like buses - another one will be along in 10 minutes. Well, unless it's the CTA. In which case it'll be 10 minutes to 2 hours and then 3 will come all together. (That's a joke, people. Hurting somebody is never easy, no matter how necessary it might be.)
absotively, posolutely... the capacity for intimacy & trust go out the window the instant honesty is compromised.
Lol... I like that! Oh well. I feel better today as I had my dance lesson and we really worked on frame and the opening of our routines. I'm feeling better and better about my dancing. And I absolutely adore my instructor, so I'm grateful that I got to see him today. It's just that breakups are no fun. Not that I will be that upset about it, but he probably will be since he hasn't dated much. But that's not my problem though is it? Does that sound harsh? I'm just trying to make it easier by breaking things off now instead of later which would be more difficult and so not worth it.
Our friend MacMoto (once a frequent poster in the old days of D-F) would say the same of men. Although, last she posted, a bus had been found that she liked quite a bit. :cheers:
One thing about relationships is that I learn from them, so I like to think positively about them even though things may not work out the way you want them to. I feel as though you learn more and more about what you want the more you date. And what an x of mine said is that what was good for him ten years ago might not be good for him today was so right on about this. I say this, because this type of relationship might have worked out a little bit longer years ago more so than now. But now, my wants and needs are different, and I'm not going to settle for anything less.
