Fun fact...if you offer to host Christmas, your job includes more than just flapping around your house pretending to do something useful. It shouldn't depend on your mother in law and your half sister to cook, clean, and decorate. Yesterday was a big huge "we're not having Christmas here ever again" party. She did nothing. Everyone is 500% sick of her posturing and relying on everyone else to do the hard work. Don't get me wrong...I love seeing BF's family...they're great...but she's nuts and I'm over her crap.