There is merit to BM's comments about the honeymoon phase. One can't maintain a constant emotional high forever. Neurochemically not possible. As one who has been through divorce, I'd strongly suggest you not even consider it as an option unless you are 100% absolutely positively certain the marriage is unsavable. Trust me, nobody wins in a divorce and I say that even though mine was extremely low conflict to the point that the judge congratulated my ex and me on acting like adults. It's just not a good thing.