Hi everyone, Isn't it great how so many of you poured out your whole hearts and souls in helping my wife and I with our problems, and I just popped up out of nowhere. I sincerely believe the advice we received was far more significant than a marriage counselor could have offered (unless she also was a dancer). What are BM's credentials? It took me sometime to analyze some of her advice but it was significant. But as you can see by our decisions we took all advice into consideration to see what would work best. My wife has always told me that the people at her dancing classes are very friendly and caring, but then again, my wife is also like that. Initially, I did some searches on this forum for anyone with a similar situation and came up empty. I then decided why not do a post and I am certainly glad I did so. You "DANCERS" surely came through for a "nondancer". Thank you.